Sunday, August 17, 2008

Pregnancy report (very upsetting post)

My friend Andrea had her baby last night.
She was born at 10.15pm and she weighted 7lbs 2oz
She's 19 inches long.
Her name is Juliana Andrea and she's so beautiful!
I couldn't believe how tiny babies are when they're newborn!

I got married almost 2 months ago and already people are asking us WHEN WE'RE GOING TO HAVE KIDS.
The answer is: NEVER.
Wouldn't that be something private bet/ my husband and I?
What the fuck do they care when we're going to have kids?
What if we can't get pregnant?
Why are people so stupid??????

Anyway, someone asked me ethat today and all I wanted was to smash her fucking face and say SHUT THE FUCK UP!
What the fuck does she care if we want to have kids, when we're planning and IF we are planning?
I'm VERY opinionated on this topic and I fucking hate when people bring that up to me, like being pregnant is like buying a new digital camera or a new pair of shoes.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I hate that too!! Everyone assumes when you are together it is just one path towards marriage, then babies, then more babies! My mum has been bugging me since I turned 20 to just give her one! She has given me a 3-5 year window now! I tell her she isnt getting one until she agrees to look after it 5 days a week!

P. said...

I TOTALLY HATE THAT!

You're single, the question is: when are you going to have a boyfriend?

You have a boyfriend, the question is: when are you getting engaged?

You get engaged, the question is: when are you getting married?

You get married, the question is: when are you having a kid? (like, RIGHT AWAY!)

You have a kid, 6 months later the question is: when is the next one coming?




People. I don't know why they have to be SO idiotic! Why do they have to pry on other people's lives asking stupid questions of that kind? What do they care? It's a personal decision! What if you don't want to have kids? What if you can't? What if you just had a miscarriage and they didn't know?

They're socially retarded. Now I'm mad. Hahahaha!